Viral Instagram Video sparks a Difficult Conversation About “Gareeb Beta toh Maa-Baap Ko bhi Achha Nahi Lagta”
A viral Instagram video sparked a conversation in India on men’s mental well-being and the pressure they feel to provide financial support. This video by director-dayal has touched thousands of people, as it highlights the unspoken relationship between men’s value and their income in the family.
This powerful video, entitled “Gareeb Beta toh Maa-Baap Ko bhi Achha Nahi Lagta”, captures the experience of its creator. Dayal tells a personal story that happened just three days after quitting his job and moving back to India. Dayal contrasts his feelings of warmth and gratitude from family members when he earned money with their subtle, but painful change in attitude after he became unemployed. His mother used to value him by offering extra rotis at dinner.
The affection that he had for him seemed to vanish when his contributions ceased. In a viral video on Instagram, Dayal describes how he asked his father for rotis, and his mother told him, “He wants two more, please give him those.” The change from a loving concern to merely a monetary transaction left Dayal feeling unappreciated. In the video, he says that “if you don’t make money, no one respects you – not even your family.” Make money… If you don’t, then nothing matters. The raw honesty of this monologue resonates with those who’ve faced similar circumstances.
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Many men have shared their stories about feeling judged when they are in financial difficulties. Comments are filled with empathy and support. A user said, “This reality is that a man is valued by how much he gives.” Another person referred to comedian Chris Rock, who stated, “Only children, women and dogs receive unconditional love.” This discussion highlights a crucial aspect that is often neglected in men’s mental health.
The creator received support from the viewers despite the sensitive nature of this topic. This viral Instagram video created an environment for men to express their vulnerability and question long-held social expectations. The video serves as an important reminder about the importance of love and support regardless of financial status.
